Rerframe to the positive. Focus on positive beliefs of each view. Use phrases such as "I think is great when..."

Emphasize agreement. Contrast your opposing views by showing agreement in a few topics. You may use phrases such as "We arer both concerned with.."

Acknowledge other people's perspective. Start with phrases such as "What I think you are saying is.." or  "I understand that.."

Hedge your statement.

Create conditions and focus argument. Way to start this is by using phrases such as "This might happen because..."